Letter to the legal wife

Yes, maybe you're right. It's I who destroyed your family. Your marriage. It's because of me that he left you and your kids. But you know what, he destroyed my marriage, too. He destroyed my family, too. I avoided him many times and pushed him away, but he was too persistent, even to the point of harassing me. He just wouldn't let go. It was him who made that first phone call. He was well aware of our situation. But he made that call anyway. It that started everything.

And you know what, if it wasn't me, it would be another girl ... other girls. I am sure of that. And he was sure of that. He said it was just a matter of time. Before me, there was someone else. A mistress. He was beginning to fall in love and then later he found out the girl was a high class prostitute. If it wasn't me, it was that girl. And just imagine what kind of life that would be for him if he would be with a high class prostitute. It would be worse, just try to imagine it. He always tells me I saved him. He always tells me I brought light to his darkened life. I guess he is right. After all these years, knowing him too well already, I think he is right. If it would be other girl, it will be worse than hell for him.

I didn't ruin your marriage. I didn't destroy your family. It was already crumbling before I came into the picture. It's the same thing for him. He didn't break my marriage. It was already dead long before he made that first phone call. So stop blaming me. Stop harassing me. Stop telling other people how a mistress took your husband away.  

Whatever happened to your marriage, it's not my fault. Whatever you were to him, is not my fault. You were a lying, manipulative, nymphomaniac bitch who took other men in your house while your husband was away working. When he told me he once came home finding other men's underwear, I knew that was the point of no return. For us. The fact that he told me that, I knew what that meant. And that started the chase, the obsession, the possession ... of me. He found a way out. He, too, was my way out. There was life waiting for us. And we took the risk. I'm sorry if you feel a thief came into your house and took everything away. I know one day soon, it will all make sense to you. Go on and live your own life, I will try my best not to keep you from flying. If I can help it.

PS: My problem is I am not done with revenge yet.